Showing posts with label Secret Disagreement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Secret Disagreement. Show all posts

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Nonverbal Communication Analysis No. 2480:
Alex Rodriguez's Press Conference - 2 August 2013,
A-Rod's Body Language Part Deux (Video, Photos)







Just after saying (beginning at 0:43),
"I feel good, I feel good. It's probably the best I've felt since we've started this process. Ummm ... I feel like I'm there. I'm ready to go. [Inaudible] 100 percent." Then during 0:54 - 0:56 Rodriguez displays a "Forward Lip Purse". This variety of lip purse connotes a clandestine disagreement. It signals a disparity between what is said and what is felt. Usually this disparity is large. The lip purse is made by a person who, at least in that specific context - feels he (or she) has an advantage. And that they have the resources (power, finances, plan, etc.) to pull off their version of the future.




This straight-on view of the forward lip purse was captured a fraction of a second after that above. These are both fairly dramatic examples. Most lip pursing is considerably more subtle and is seen every day in the board room, on the sales floor, in the court room and in virtually every negotiation. It allows you to see inside the mind of others and, along with a nuanced knowledge of other nonverbal signals, gives you a huge advantage over your competition.





At 0:54 a journalist asks, "Alex are you confident that you're going to be in Chicago on Monday?" A-Rod then answers, "Ya, ya, unless I get hit by lightning and these days you never know" - he displays a "Lizard Tongue". Also known as a "Tongue Jut" in this body language cluster-context it is consistent with the emotion of "I've been a bad boy", "I've just been caught", "I've got away with something" or "I've done something foolish".





At 1:04, Rodriguez is asked, "Alex, are you prepared to fight Bud Selig on any suspensions he may hand down [inaudible] challenge you?" [Regarding Major League Baseball's investigation and subsequent penalization for performance enhancing drug (PED) usage]. A-Rod says, "You know I, I can't comment on that right now. It's still an ongoing investigation. And ah, I will follow with due process." At 1:15, just after he says "...investigation..." he very briefly exhibits a "Jaw Jut". This nonverbal signal with its accompanying upper lip and mustache area tension and evanescent over-exposure of the lower teeth is highly significant for anger.

If you see a jaw jut, step away and look quickly to their hands. If a person's hands are configured in a fist along with a jaw jut - there is a high likelihood that violence will ensue. Take immediate measures to fight or flee.

See also:

Nonverbal Communication Analysis No. 2479:  Alex Rodriguez Press Conference 2 August 2013,  A-Rod's Body Language Tells Part I, Anxiety Tells

Negotiation Secret # 391: Bashar al-Assad, Pursed Lips May Sink Ships

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2446:  Harry Reid's Lip Purse -  Body Language, the Immigration Bill & Negotiation

Negotiation Secret # 47:  Pete Carroll, Jaw Jut and Mid-face Tightening

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2374:  Tom Cruise on Late Night with Jimmy Fallon and Body Language of Emotional Dissonance 

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2433:  Vladimir Putin & David Cameron Disagree on Syria -  A Body Language Evaluation of Russian Leader

Nonverbal Communication Secret # 48:  A Lizard Tongue gives us a Great Glimpse into  Katie Holmes' Psyche

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2289:  Sen. Lindsey Graham grills Chuck Hagel -  Body Language at Senate Confirmation Hearings

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Thursday, March 28, 2013

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2348:
Prince William, Alpha Personalities & Body Language





A helicopter pilot in the Royal Air Force Search and Rescue Force and soon to be father - Prince William is shown in the above video (0:05 - 0:06) and in the images below in a "Lip Purse" (Specifically this is a symmetrical and loose sub-type). This nonverbal display is very commonly seen in an alpha personalities - or scenarios where the person displaying this expression is an alpha - relative to the people in the immediate vicinity. It's one body language tell which signals clandestine disagreement - where little or no opposition is voiced, but a difference of opinion with the action being seen or spoken by another party is very much being felt. Moreover those expressing the loose, symmetrical lip purse (here Prince William) have the means to carry off their plan (and will do so clandestinely) and have high degree of confidence that they will succeed or the other person's plan of action will fail.

The Duke of Cambridge is probably feeling this emotion towards the camera crew or other press involved in filming/making of this documentary (soon to be aired by the BBC). Yet this expression, and important variations of it, are oft displayed but missed - in the board room, in the court room, in the exam room, in negotiations and on the sales floor - and their ramifications and thus the next best move goes unrecognized and uninitiated.

Most people commit the equivalent of "stumbling in the dark" when it comes to body language. They "give away" and overlook terabytes of valuable nonverbal information. Have you tripped lately and not even know it?

See also:

Negotiation Body Language Secret # 392: Christmas Cheer - Kate Middleton's and Prince William's Suppressed Smiles

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 1859:  The Prince is Angry at the Queen's Jubilee

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2258:  Prince Charles worried about Harry?  What his Body Language Says

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2115:  Prince Harry in Afghanistan - Incredulity & Contempt

Nonverbal Communication Analysis & Self-Test # 2252:  How Self-Aware are you?  Plane Crashes with Collateral Damage to Cars & Highway

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2264:  Kate Middleton's First Portrait as Duchess of Cambridge  Captures Body Language of  Contempt, Disapproval and Fatigue

Nonverbal Communication Analysis # 2178:  Little Girl Tells Pippa Middleton, "I Hate Princesses"  Pippa's Body Language of Contempt ...


































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